Denise M – Los Angeles
Denise, 46, shows up at our interview dressed to the nines. The woman is put together—from her perfectly coiffed hair, down to her Christian Louboutin shoes. I remember a few years back, I was running around Manhattan with a friend and we met a group of tipsy girls on the street. My friend was trying to get one of the girls to join us for a drink, but her night was ending and she was on her way home. I jumped in—“How can I convince you to stay out with him?” She said, “Get me a pair of those red-bottoms and he can take me home.” It was a joke… but only sort of a joke. Women covet those shoes. And Denise knows how to rock a pair.
Denise looks high maintenance, and she carries with her a heavy protective wall. So I assume she’s something she’s not when we start talking. But her wall quickly comes down, and I realize my first assumption is wrong. She tells me she gets that a lot. “People who know me say, ‘When I first met you I thought you’d be the biggest bitch—but you’re not.’” I think it’s our own intimidation, though. She’s really nice.
“I’ve spent my whole life in Los Angeles. I was a film major but I ended up in the beauty industry, and I worked in the salon and on film sets for many years.” Denise was always interested in real estate, and for the last decade she made it her career. But, she tells me, “If I ever won the lottery I would still do hair.” After a “great ride,” she rode out some tough years in real estate. “But it’s a busy time again. There’s an upswing.”
I ask her what she does for fun. “I love going to the beach. I like to travel. I like going on walks.” She clarifies that statement, as one date took her on a hike where there were rattlesnakes—“I like to walk on a path. I like to have fun, but I’m not a daredevil. I love being around friends. I like cooking. I love going to museums. I definitely have a passion for art—theatrical and fine arts. I come from a family of artists.”
She likes men who are warm, caring and ambitious. “But not neurotic. Because some men who are successful in their businesses are a little neurotic and can’t ever take a break from work—even if you go away or go out for the evening. A big turn-off to me is laziness. I can’t be with a lazy man. I like a man who takes care of himself. I’m into physical fitness, and I don’t want some guy to be laying on the couch drinking beer all day long. That’s just not my thing.”
Her marriage didn’t end well, but, Denise says, “I can always make lemonade out of lemons. It’s honestly the only way I function every day. I want to be loved and adored and respected. I want someone to be kind to my children, who are 5 and 8. I want to give that back. I’m not looking to be selfish. I want to love someone, adore them, cherish them. I want to cook for them, hang out, go for walks, watch movies and open up a bottle of wine. I’m looking for my best friend. Someone to share the rest of my life with. I was brought up by a stepfather who was a survivor from the Holocaust, so if I ended up meeting a man who was half as wonderful to his children as he was to my brother and me, I’d be a lucky lady, and they’d be very lucky children.”
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